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Special Issues
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Important Links to Remember
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Women
In general, women in the United States have a lot of freedom and are afforded the same rights as men. They may work in any profession and dress as they choose. However, as in other countries, unwanted attention directed at women can range from a mild nuisance to a serious threat of danger. Acceptable treatment of women in the country where you are from may be very different from the kind of treatment acceptable in the United States. Also, the way women interact with men in the United States may not be as socially acceptable in your country. What's considered to be flirting or a sexual invitation in your home country can simply be considered "being friendly" in the United States or the other way around. American women usually smile (even at strangers) and walk with their eyes up rather than looking at the ground. Reacting (positively or negatively) to un-wanted attention can serve to encourage the other person. It’s better not to pay attention. Personal space and boundaries may also be different in other countries, so make sure to clearly establish behavior that shows you're not interested.
In television and movies, the media tends to portray U.S. women as promiscuous, but this is a stereotype. Even if you encounter women who you perceive as promiscuous you certainly should not conclude that all U.S. women are like that. Dressing conservatively and traveling in groups are always safe bets. Although it is important to learn to adapt to a foreign culture, that doesn't mean you should have to compromise your own sense of security and dignity.
Minorities (Ethnic and Religious)
You may not be considered an ethnic or religious minority at home, but by coming to the United States you become, in a sense, a minority. Although this country is diverse and people from all across the world live here, chances are that you may still stand out from the locals. In some cases, your outward appearance can also make you stand out, especially if you are living in an area of the country where the population is very homogeneous. Sometimes the locals’ curiosity, interest, ignorance or misunderstanding of you can be unpleasant.
Political turmoil or lack of tolerance can make some ethnic and religious groups a target for mistreatment or even violence in the United States. Political rallies and certain dates like anniversaries of historic events may spur ethnic and religious conflicts. Certain ethnic or religiously affiliated crimes may be considered “hate crimes” in the United States.
Ethnic or religious issues shouldn’t be a negative factor in your experience in the United States; that’s why it’s important to do a little research ahead of time to survey the national sentiment and current events in the United States. For more information on the current events going on in the United States, please see “Media” in the Resources section of this Handbook. Also, ask university administrators if you should be aware of anything in particular related to ethnic or religious conflict in the region where you will be studying in the United States.
Non-heterosexuals
While there is a larger degree of tolerance in big cities like New York, Los Angeles or San Francisco, in some areas of the country homosexuality is still looked down upon. If you don’t want to compromise your lifestyle, you may have to be selective in where you study and travel. You might want to consider buying a travel guide like the Spartacus guide, written specifically for homosexual travelers.
Disabled
The disabled can also be the victims of prejudice and stereotyping. But in general, the United States has high standards and requirements for providing access for the disabled. Wheelchair ramps, handicapped parking spaces, brail signs, and other aides are common. However, such facilities may be non-existent in certain parts, especially in rural areas or small towns. Most, if not all, U.S. colleges and universities will make special arrangements for you if you are disabled, but it is a good idea to inquire far in advance. Your college or university may require some time in order to facilitate your needs.
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